Sympathize with you, sister. What you are going through can really hurt, especially when it's someone you have vowed before God to stay with until death do you part. May the Lord continue to give you strength in this time of trial in your life. Many of us here on this site will certainly be praying for you and your family.

I must admit, though, that I am concerned about the tone of your words. I do detect that the hurt is trying to get rooted in your heart, where it can turn to bitterness and resentment(unforgiveness) and do a lot of damage to you emotionally and spiritually. It can hinder a lot of prayers then; it can also hinder your healing. Obviously, it has already affected your children. If I were you, I would try hard to get the daughters to forgive their father; if not, how they feel about him can affect how they see men the rest of their lives. And that hurt can open a door for the enemy in their lives( this is how some girls turn to lesbianism!). It all starts with just having a negative perception of men because of some bad experiences with them(especially like the betrayer of a father). This kind of hurt can also open the doors to sin addictions later on in life, sins that are difficult to break free from because they are rooted in some painful experiences from the past. It's all part of devil's trap. Many christians deal with this kind of bondage, though few of them really understand this.

But you can close every door to the devil. Teach your girls to pray for their father everyday. And never speak negative of their father in their presence. Just Fill their hearts with God's word; and pray with them each day. Plead the blood of Jesus over their minds everyday(and yours). In the end, however it turns out, God will work it out for your good.

God bless your family!

Dear Sister,

I can understand your pain..and so does our Lord Jesus....Jesus loves you and cares for you....please believe that our Lord is greater than the problem and will change your husband...forgive your husband and bless him. Thank God for the changes he will bring about in your husband...you will be blessed....hang on in faith and believe that our Lord will change your husband....the Jesus who brought Lazarus back to life will sure raise your marriage...I too will be praying for you...pray earnestly and claim the promises....God will do a miracle...very soon...

Thanks. This is why I've lifted him up to the Lord already.

I am pryaing for more faith. Though I feel much better now, I am still a work in progress. I need true faith, one that will make me stop worrying and TRUST that God is working on us. :)

You, my "prayermates" are GOD'S INSTRUMENTS to guide me to the right path.