God bless you and your husband.may he guide you every step of the way...in whichever direction He choses to take you. remember that EVERY SINGLE SITUATION whether it is dark and seems impossible to get through, is a situation you are meant to battle with God at your side. let go and let God deal with your husband and your marriage. He will not let you down. always follow your intuition...that's how He guides. you will be fine because you are made in God's image...as is your husband, and both of you have a destiny that God has planned specifically for each of you. don't get in His way or you will slow the process. if your husband is not the one God has divinely selected for you, then after this is over, God will bring someone perfect for you and your son, but you can't move forward if you keep trying to go back.

you know just what to do and just what to say because you hear with the ears of the holy and infinite spirit and you act under divine inspiration...God created you to be great, and He WANTS his daughter, you, to have everything your heart truly desires...now let Him bring it to you.

God bless.

Dear Sister,
I understand how frustrating and heartbraking your situation is- not only for you, but for your son. I know that you know it is not your fault, your husband had these character flaws long before he meet you.
There is a great book called,"Love Must be Tough" by James Dobson which describes how a Christian is to handle this kind of situation. It was great help to me when I was married to a non-Christian caught in extreme boundage to many kind of destructive sin that made our marriage impossible and abusive, and struggling with what to do.
The Holy Spirit may use this book to help you too.
It is very difficult to know what to do, and only you know you must do for your own sanity, and for your son. God can show you clearly what to do.
I believe as you read the Word of GOd in your daily studies, God will use His word to give you specific direction.
I hung on in prayer for a long time far past what other people thought I should have. I believe that time was important not only for me to grow stronger in the Lord to handle single motherhood, but also in His testing and giving my former husband plenty of opportunity to turn around. But, I knew beyond a shadow of doubt when it was time to walk away.
I send you hugs and love. No one gets married to be divorced. Being a divorced single mother Christian was the LAST thing I wanted. I feared judegement from others, and also the stigma, and of course, the loss of a dream that I had hoped would be a happy loving married life.
The process is so hard, but you will get through it stronger and more in love with the Lord. He will cover you, and provide all you need.
I hope and pray also for you , that you do not think that you are inferior in any way.
Because of my former husband's actions I started to believe that I was unworthy of loving. Marriage is the most intimate relationship on earth, and when you expose the innermost part of yourself to someone and have them treat you this way, it cuts very very deeply. It has taken God many years to show me that someone else's sin is their character issue and not a reflection of my worth and value as a woman.
I know you love him ,and want nothing more than for him to know the love of our Saviour, but you have been wounded and hurt by his choices, and need and deserve to not continuously be hurt and harmed further.
You faithfulness to the Lord will be rewarded, even though it may not feel like it now.
" Dear Heavenly Father,
I lift up my sister to you and ask that you show her clear and absolute direction about her relationship with her wayward husband.
Give her your strength and power to do exactly what you are calling her to do in the circumstance. Give her the peace in the midst of this storm as she steps out to do as you know is very best for all involved.
I ask you to intervene in her husbands life and bring him to a place where he clearly sees He needs you and surrendors his life to you- Only you know what this will take for him to see the darkness and the dead end he is seeking by his attitude and his choices.
Only you can reveal Truth to a person.
Remove any voices within his being that may prevent him from trusting you or hearing you.
Protect this child, Set this boy apart for you so that none of his father's actions leave any lasting wounds, or scars. May this boy receive
your love and find in You the loving, wonderful kind and protective father, who teaches him the way of Truth and rightousness.
Thank you for this woman's heart and her patience with this man. She has given him everything- even her body, as she is the mother of his child, that was concieved by the joining of their bodies- the most intimate act two people can share. Thank you for her tender heart of faithfulness, even when her husband has failed in all his commitment to her. Reward her for her trust in You.
Send comfort to her in this time. Speak words of affirmation to her being, so that she knows she is beautiful, loved and pure, and is very special.
In Jesus Name,
Amen
Amen