Dear Beautiful Sister,
Please do not hurt yourself. I know how bad it hurts to be used. I know how sad and hopeless it feels, and the ache in your heart.
I know how difficult it is to take care of children when you feel this way, but you must not give up.
There are many people who will use other people, and disgard them. It is sad, but what the world teaches men to do. Our culture treats women as objects and then wonders why our families are falling apart. We are not things, we are human beings with feelings.
Please do not turn it on yourself because someone , maybe many people have used you.
God loves you. God thinks you are special. THere is no one like you in the whole world, and you are here for a reason.
Your value is what GOD thinks of you. In this world, we women are taught from a very early age that are value is what men think of us, but this is a lie. Our value lies in the fact that God loves us, and created us in His perfect image.
Jesus is the first one to learn to trust. People will always let us down , but God never will.
I love you in the lord, and will pray for you. I have felt the feelings you feel, and understand being where you are. It will get better. THere is joy in your future.

" Dear Heavenly Father,
I lift this precious person up to you and ask for your healing touch on her life. I ask for wholeness in her being. I ask you to help her work through this circumstance, and give her insight as to value YOU place on her. Show her how much you love her and want to be the One she places her hope and trust in ultimately.
I know that you can do miracles in our emotions. So many of us are wounded , and need your touch, and the strength to face our pain openly before you. You are always willing to listen and to share with us the things we need to see to break through.
Have mercy on her and her children. I ask you to guide her and hold her up in ways that she could never imagine. Give her strength to go on. Give her a hope that nothing can shake. Give her a power to belief your word when you say that we are the apple of your eye, and that you delight in us.
Bring light into her life. Cover her with your protective wings.
Men may lie, but You never do. Give her a desire to know You , and be close to you. Use this situation to bring her close to your heart, and bring her a deeper understanding of what love really is.
I pray that this man come to know you and understand how harmful and weak his behaviour has been. Give him a new life in you, so that his guide is not his carnal desire , but to serve you and be noble. SHow him another way.
Use whatever is nessecary to save him. SHow him your love for him to , and how he is showing his own self- hatred by turning away the mother of his children. Heal his brokeness too.
In Jesus Name,
Amen